Nollywood actress Lilian Afegbai has shared insight into why she keeps her relationships and personal life away from public scrutiny.
Speaking during an appearance on Unfiltered and Extra Spicy, Afegbai said she deliberately avoids discussing her romantic relationships and private matters, even with close friends.
According to the actress, maintaining strict boundaries is a personal choice rooted in her personality and past experiences.
“In real life, I don’t talk about my relationship or my private life with my friends,” she said during the interview, adding that she does not feel obligated to disclose intimate details to anyone.
Afegbai acknowledged that some people may misinterpret her silence as distrust or secrecy but maintained that she is comfortable with her decision to keep certain aspects of her life private.
She attributed her guarded approach to unresolved childhood trauma, which she said has contributed to deep-seated trust issues. The actress disclosed that she is currently in therapy as part of efforts to address these challenges.
Describing herself as a “work in progress,” Afegbai noted that personal growth remains an ongoing journey.
The actress also clarified that her outgoing and sociable personality often creates the wrong impression about her level of closeness with others.
“People assume that because I have many friends, I am close to everyone. That’s not the case,” she explained.
Afegbai’s remarks add to a growing number of conversations among public figures about mental health, therapy, and the importance of personal boundaries in the spotlight.
